My Discombobulated Feelings

WHAT I BELIEVE:

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.

There’s no such thing as a perfect soul mate. If you meet someone and you think they’re perfect you better run as fast as you can in the opposite direction cause your soul mate is the person that pushes your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes your face shit.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

HOW I AM/HOW I FEEL NOW:

I conceal my weakness so well that even sometimes I forget they’re there until I’m presented with an opportunity to overcome them. My insecurity surfaces and I desperately try to hide my vulnerability with failed success.

Think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything.

I was terrified by what I was feeling for you.

You know you love someone when you don’t hate them for breaking your heart.

What do you do when the person who broke your heart is the only one who can fix it?

When you run from something, it only stays longer. If you fight something, it only makes you stronger.

WHAT I'M DOING:

I’m going to smile like nothing’s wrong, talk like everything’s perfect, act like it’s all a dream, and pretend it’s not hurting me.

HOW HE MUST'VE FELT:

Sometimes you have to forget how you feel; and remember what you deserve.

The worst thing about being lied to is knowing that you didn’t deserve the truth.

WHAT I SHOULD'VE FOCUSED ON BUT IGNORED...

Sometimes you just need to be with the person who makes you smile.

If I were to die tomorrow, what would you say to me?

Take a chance because you never know how perfect something can be.

Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past.

Be authentic and direct in communication.

WHAT I'M BEGINNING TO REALIZE:

There’s no such thing as a perfect soul mate. If you meet someone and you think they’re perfect you better run as fast as you can in the opposite direction cause your soul mate is the person that pushes your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes your face shit.

When you run from something, it only stays longer. If you fight something, it only makes you stronger.

When you judge others, you don’t define them. You define yourself.

Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past.

Some say holding on is what makes you strong. But sometimes it takes much more strength to let go and move on.

Recognize that you are a part of something larger. Your actions, however, small or large, bad or good, affect others and the world around you.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

WHAT I'M AFRAID OF:

When you judge others, you don’t define them. You define yourself.

Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past.

Some say holding on is what makes you strong. But sometimes it takes much more strength to let go and move on.

There’s no such thing as a perfect soul mate. If you meet someone and you think they’re perfect you better run as fast as you can in the opposite direction cause your soul mate is the person that pushes your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes your face shit.

Sometimes you just need to be with the person who makes you smile.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

Love me without fear. Trust me without wondering. Love me without restrictions. Want me without demand. Accept me how I am.

Take a chance because you never know how perfect something can be.

Be authentic and direct in communication.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT:

Think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything.

Isn’t it ironic? We ignore the ones who adore us, adore the ones that ignore us, love the ones who hurt us, and hurt the ones who love us?

Good judgment comes from experience, but experience comes from bad judgment.

Be authentic and direct in communication.

WHAT I NEED TO ACCEPT AND LEARN (things I'm trying to come to grips with):

Don’t worry about the people in your past because they aren’t in your future for a reason.

Don't focus your thoughts on the one that got away. It was not meant to be. You have a great future in store for you, so start enjoying everything life has to offer.

Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly, love deeply, forgive quickly, take chances, give everything, have no regrets, and forget the bad in the past. Just remember what all it has taught you.

Love me without fear. Trust me without wondering. Love me without restrictions. Want me without demand. Accept me how I am.

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.

I conceal my weakness so well that even sometimes I forget they’re there until I’m presented with an opportunity to overcome them. My insecurity surfaces and I desperately try to hide my vulnerability with failed success.

You know you love someone when you don’t hate them for breaking your heart.

What do you do when the person who broke your heart is the only one who can fix it?

When you run from something, it only stays longer. If you fight something, it only makes you stronger.

The worst thing about being lied to is knowing that you didn’t deserve the truth.

Sometimes you just need to be with the person who makes you smile.

Take a chance because you never know how perfect something can be.

Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past.

When you judge others, you don’t define them. You define yourself.

Life is about trusting our feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories and learning from the past.

Some say holding on is what makes you strong. But sometimes it takes much more strength to let go and move on.

Recognize that you are a part of something larger. Your actions, however, small or large, bad or good, affect others and the world around you.

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

LASTLY....

Bob Marley's lesson on love...

You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you the part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.